So...I guess I have been feeling like I have been dealing with this issue more lately than I have in awhile and much more than I care to at all!!
Why do people feel the need to lie? Where does it get you, really?! Why do guys especially feel the need to tell you what they think you want to hear? If you have to lie about it in the first place, shouldn't that tell you something? How do people think they can get away with this? There are more questions to ask, but I'm sure you know them all just as well as I do.
I feel like I used to be pretty gullible, but eventually after a few very difficult, heartbreaking situations I think I finally began to see people for who they really are. This however does exclude the one guy that no matter how many times he breaks my heart somehow I forget all the bad times and can only remember all the reasons why I love him. In my general life though I feel like I finally built a sturdy brick wall around my heart. I sometimes still struggle with wearing my heart on my sleeve.
If there is one thing I hate in life...it's a LIAR, I mean seriously JUST BE REAL!! I don't need some B.S. line about this and that, JUST BE REAL!! Don't tell me what you think I want to hear, I promise I'm a big girl, I can take it!!
Honestly it hurts more to find out later than it would if people would just tell me the truth to begin with!!
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Girl! I hear every word that you are saying. I think people have for a long time viewed lying as the easy way out- but, the ironic truth is the truth is always revealed. Sometimes it takes time and patience. In the end, the heart breaking situations will only prove to make you taht much stronger and that much more protective of who you are.
ReplyDeleteAs for that one guy that want to make you forget all the bad things- there will always be that guy. Oh and lucky you are to experience such a love. Sure there are days it hurts but all in all to feel that kind of feeling-irreplacable.
We stil need to catch up and do dinner sometime. I'll be looking forward to many blog updates!